I love the phrase "adulting." It basically means making grown up stuff happen and pretending like you truly know exactly what's going on, when really, you are just making it up as you go. I basically began my adult life as a mom since we had our first baby at 22...so for me, parenting often felt exactly like "adulting" in my early years. Actually, I still feel like I'm just winging it quite often. The truth is though, now that we are getting to raising our fourth little one, I'm beginning to feel like I know what I'm doing...sometimes or well, at least more frequently than before. Over the last decade, my mindset on parenting has changed from "how do I do this correctly?" to "what needs to be done to raise them well." I've found that taking the mindset off of me and my performance and moving it to them completely changes what I do and how I handle most situations. For example, my just turned two year old loves trying ...
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